I’ve been guilty of this.
On social media, one of my connections announced that he published his book, another friend posted her list of speaking engagements for the first quarter of the year, and another friend released his online training program. I couldn’t help but feel, “Wow, I’m so behind.”
Does any of this sound familiar?
That darn negative committee.
After taking a step back to analyze my own accomplishments, I realized that I wasn’t behind at all. At the time of this blog post, I finished the year in December speaking at a prominent science association. I just found out that I will be speaking internationally as a keynote presenter in Manchester, UK, and one of my favorite (well resourced) clients wants to bring me back for more work this year.
Winning!
Yet, I didn’t feel like I was winning because I let negative self-talk—the negative committee—get in the way.
On social media, one of my connections announced that he published his book, another friend posted her list of speaking engagements for the first quarter of the year, and another friend released his online training program. I couldn’t help but feel, “Wow, I’m so behind.”
Does any of this sound familiar?
That darn negative committee.
After taking a step back to analyze my own accomplishments, I realized that I wasn’t behind at all. At the time of this blog post, I finished the year in December speaking at a prominent science association. I just found out that I will be speaking internationally as a keynote presenter in Manchester, UK, and one of my favorite (well resourced) clients wants to bring me back for more work this year.
Winning!
Yet, I didn’t feel like I was winning because I let negative self-talk—the negative committee—get in the way.